hey, i need advice. this guy who i thought was my bestfriend and counted me as his, has seemed to of gottenclose with this other girl & he says he's as close as her as he is with me even though we've been through so much more and i've known him so much longer. It's like he doesn't really care, and idk what to do.
It’s alright. Take a breath.
If this boy is your best friend like you say he is, there’s no comparison in friendships that should be made. It’s evident you love him, and without a doubt I’m positive he loves you too. However, through him finding closeness with another, does not in the slightest bit lessen the closeness he’s, for much longer, felt with you. The memories will never be forgotten nor overlooked.
Because we’re so often introduced to people, it’s almost inevitable we’ll find others who link with us like the friends who we have now, had once before linked with us too. Be happy, because you began the same. Be happy, because he’s been blessed to have since then, found a best friend in you.